Interfaith Dialog
I have a Facebook friend who is Muslim. Just one. I met her a couple of years ago when Lynne and I participated in a small interfaith discussion group, five Muslims and five Catholics. We formed the group after a friend and I called on the Imam at the mosque (they call it a masjid) near our parish to ask if there would be any interest. The Imam made no commitment but referred our inquiry to his outreach committee. A few months later we had our first meeting.
We only met four times and didn't stay in touch but recently one of the ladies from the group invited me to friend her and I did. She is interesting. Most of her posts are pretty standard Facebook fare, pictures of friends and such. But after the San Bernardino shootings we had a serious exchange. She has a different perspective. She has college age children who are constantly reminded that because they are Muslims, people don't trust them. Everywhere they go people eye them with suspicion. Her daughter can't get summer retail work because she wears a hijab, the distinctively Muslim scarf covering her hair.
My friend doesn't worry about her own children. They are happy and well adjusted, and they get a lot of support from the community at the masjid. She does worry about young people who are less observant, those who don't get the right kind of support from their masjid. She sees them becoming bitter and resentful, susceptible to the kind of distorted, violent, hateful, and suicidal brand of Islam (she wouldn't call it Islam) they might find on the Internet. She thinks it's an urgent issue their leadership, Imams, intellectuals, and public figures need to address. I don't know if that was a factor in the Sam Bernardino shootings but I think she has a point.
I also think it an urgent issue we all need to address. Like it or not we have at least three and probably five million Muslims living among us. They are here to stay and millions more are coming. We need to get to know these people and to understand that most of them, like my friend and her family, are decent law abiding citizens. We need to stop telling each other that Islam is inherently a violent religion. It isn't and we need to be respectful. We have to find a way to live peacefully with our Muslim neighbors. Else we are in serious trouble.

